Waiting on the 31st so that we can close on our new house is like waiting on Christmas. Or in this case, Halloween.
Much like the house we just sold, it’s a 1960’s ranch fixer-upper. You know, that thing Marilyn said she would never buy again. HA. Actually, it’s not so much a fixer-upper as an updater. The bones and structure of the house are in really good shape. It’s well built, it’s just outdated. It’s got a blue wall oven, for Pete’s sake.
I look forward to getting started on the projects inherent with buying such a thing, but waiting to start is maddening. My wife and I have both made list after list after list of the things we need in each room, how much they cost, what color/design they should be, and it gets to be a bit overwhelming. Communication becomes key in these things, since we don’t actually have a picture or designs drawn out, we each could (theoretically) have different ideas of what is being done in a room. We are learning that when a conversation starts to get heated, it’s usually because some basic assumptions about the room are different and we are imagining two different (and conflicting) things.
And their have been some heated discussions. Part is the aforementioned assumption problem, but part of it is nervousness and impatience and plain maddening waiting. I wake up in the middle of the night thinking about cabinet doors and hinges. I think about water drainage from gutters and harvest gold tiles. At work, I find myself thinking about getting rid of green sinks. My nerves are wearing a bit thin. I’m losing sleep. My appetite is shrinking. I’m just plain distracted. I’m just not good at waiting. Either that or I’ve got diaperchickenitis.